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"Spirituality is all about preparing
for change -
changing from what we are, to what we have to become."
Change is like watching a bud open into a flower level by level,
layer after layer of petals. The important thing to understand
is that it is one integrated idea - and the idea that a bit of
change is followed by another bit of change, followed by another
bit of change, until finally, we come to a changeless state. It
is necessary to understand this because we must know change as
a process. Change is a process, which involves events in time.
Where Nature brings about change, it has to resort to such means
as are not considered necessary when a Master brings it about.
Master is interested in bringing about change: Change in individuals,
then through them change in society, then in the world at large,
covering eventually all humanity. The Master works thus for bringing
about change on a global scale, culminating perhaps in change
of such magnitude that we can never hope to even conceive of the
various dimensions that such change can embrace.
Master brings about global change by coaxing it out of the human
heart. He coaxes them by His Divine Love and by the offer of His
unlimited services in their self development to the highest possible
level where they can become perfect human beings - which is only
another way of saying that they have become divinised.
WHAT ARE THE DIFFERENT LEVELS OF CHANGE?
There are several levels of change. There is one level in which
we can change nothing. For instance, the universe. We cannot possibly
change the length of the day and night. We can not change the
orbit of the planets. That is, in nature we can change nothing.
However sleepless we are, we wait for the morning. The morning
will not come earlier than it will come. So, in that sense we
have to wait for change to come. That applies to the physical
world.
How does change happen in the physical world? One is by
the laws of nature operating on the physical world. You know,
things like gravitation, velocity of light - all these things.
They operate inexorably. So you have the scientific laws - the
laws of science. There is a second operation which is brought
about by our samskaras. That is beyond our control in the ordinary
human being who has not involved himself in the process of his
own change. The samskaric pattern acts as some sort of a program
which brings about automatic change without our control. Therefore,
we change jobs at certain times - so many changes in our life,
you see. Most of the time we don't want change. Now Babuji said,
"If you are living in a changing situation, and it is your
samskara which is controlling that change, you have no control
over it. So you are really the slaves of the past."
How to change it? Not by working upon the physical world itself,
but by bringing a higher force to work on it. And what is that
higher force but the cleaning of the spiritual system. When the
samskaras are removed, their operation is stopped, and we are
liberated from our slavery to the past.
How does change happen in the mental world? We next come
to the mental world, mental - intellectual world. Here we find
change is possible. That is what education consists of. A man
can be born an utter fool and become a very very wise man indeed.
And it is possible, much change is possible in that sphere. So
in that sphere we are not supposed to wait for change, but we
are supposed to bring about change. So we go to school, try to
educate ourselves, ask the professors or the teachers to help
us change. But if all that stops with just the acquisition of
knowledge, it may be useful in our earning a nice living and having
a high standard of existence, but it will not necessarily make
us wise. Because the knowledge too must be applied on ourselves
to bring about a more profound change in our depth of existence.
How does change happen in the spiritual world? Then when
we come to the spiritual existence, we find that change is imperative.
And we have to work for that change. In spiritual life we don't
wait for change to come, we try to force change. Master makes
it possible for us to achieve today a goal which we would have
achieved only at the end of eternity.
Now when we come to the spiritual level, the level is beyond
the operation of "accidents"; the operation of accidentality
is removed. What the Master finds is not accidental. What He discovers
is not accidental. What He creates is not accidental. Because
He is operating from the absolute level where no change is possible
- it is the changeless condition. And therefore, for Him, all
change is manifest through all operations of time - past, present
and future. So it is only at that level that there is nothing
accidental, nothing unforeseen, nothing dangerous. Everything
is planned and willed. Therefore when we are able to submit to
such a person, working at such a level - the highest person at
the highest level - who is also the changeless person at the changeless
level, we are subjecting ourselves to Him, and to the accident-free
changes that He will bring about in us.
In the highest level of spirituality we can do without knowing
anything. We have to do without knowing anything - the doing
is ours, the knowing is his. And when we are able to accept
this situation, and tell the Master, "I am doing what you
told me to do, the rest is your business," that is surrender
- one way of thinking of surrender. So you see, this idea of change
is a very far reaching thing.
Ultimately it is what we do in relation to the Divine or Cosmic
purpose that has been assigned to me that matters, not what I
am. What I am is continuously changing, until I reach that
condition which Babuji has called "the changeless state,"
that is the Divine state. Thereafter, quality has no meaning.
Till then quality had no meaning, because quality is continuously
changing. When we talk of a man having a fixed quality, he becomes
static. It is like looking out of a train and seeing the same
thing all the time. It means the train has come to a stop. So
if a man or a woman continues to show the same quality day after
day, life after life, however admirable those qualities may be,
but they have stopped evolving. So spiritual law says, "Seek
that, which when you seek shall be the same as when you find,
because it is changeless."
WHAT IS THE NEED FOR CHANGE?
When we move, we have to move with the tide. Change is to be considered
as some sort of a cosmic stream which takes us along. And by the
Master's grace, that change is guided. It is not an unguided change,
it is not like a piece of wood floating on the surface of a river,
soul-less, mind-less, will-less, that may be marooned at some
spot, or may be plunged into a waterfall at another spot. Our
change is not like that. Though we are floating on the stream
of eternal change, there is a guiding hand and it keeps us protected,
guided on to the sure destination that we have to achieve. And
I can assure you that change is inevitable, it cannot be stopped.
As my Master said, "Change is the instrument of progress."
On one occasion He spoke to me about the need for forcing change
if the pace of progress is to be accelerated. He said, "If
we are to leave it to Nature, it may take thousands of years,
and perhaps the desired change may not even take place. There
is no doubt, the Divine Will is at work but as they say, the mills
of God grind slowly. That is why evolution takes such long periods
of time. What does the wise person do? He tries to bring about
the desired change in himself or his conditions by taking certain
steps for it. This is what we are doing here - trying to bring
about the necessary changes by following in a disciplined way,
a system of practice. It is a blessing conferred upon humanity
by my Master that such a wonderful system is available."
I asked Him whether this could not be taken as going against
the will of God. If the Divine Will is at work, why should we
be active in bringing about a change which will in any case happen
by His Will? Master smiled and said, "In one way that is
how the lazy person thinks. Nature does not compel us to progress.
But at the same time we have to remember that the whole trend
in nature is to bring about higher and higher things. This is
called evolution. When we try to make our progress speedy, we
are only cooperating with Nature's purpose, and therefore we are
acting in conformity with His Will."
WHY DO WE RESIST CHANGE?
FEAR: We want change and we are afraid of change, which
makes us think of a static condition as a secure condition. It
would be a very funny animal in the jungle, perhaps a deer or
a buffalo, which thinks that just by standing still, it will escape
the tiger. So, static situations don't give us anything, not even
security. They only make us more and more subject to everything
that governs a static condition. There is no change, there is
no growth, there is no movement. There is only what we can call
petrifaction, slow solidification, until even the consciousness
of existence perhaps becomes so dull that we degenerate into some
sort of absolute lethargy.
This is, as far as India is concerned, somewhat of a national
phenomenon. People try to continue in whatever they are doing.
A man wants a new job. A new job is offered, then he begins to
worry. Even though it offers double the salary, much better job
opportunities, he is afraid, that having got it he may lose it.
Is it not better to stay with the old job which only pays half?
All that we know when we come into this system is to accept the
fact that change is inevitable. Let it be a guided change, a regulated
change under the ever-wakeful, ever-loving gaze of a Master who
is there to protect us, cherish us, nourish us and take us to
our goal. It is a natural thing that people are afraid of it.
I was myself substantially afraid. Strangely, I was afraid of
everything except my Master. It was not that I was of impeccable
character, or an outstanding human being, but, I blundered into
Sahaj Marg very much like a baby blunders into some situation.
And when the baby goes and sits on the lap of the king, the king
does not throw it away. He accepts, may be only for a moment,
but he keeps it on his lap, he loves it a little, gives it some
present and thereafter he gets a special affection for that child
because it came to him.
PREJUDICE: Resistance to change is caused by fear and
prejudice. Prejudice is the resistance to a change in values.
We resist the change in others; rather, we refuse to perceive
such change. Since our views become fixed, our own progress is
adversely affected. My Master has cautioned us that prejudice
is one of the most harmful things on the spiritual path. Why is
this so? It is because prejudice is a mental phenomenon. The power
of the mind, thought power, is the highest power, the most potent
power available to man. When we use this power in a negative way
to oppose change in others or ourselves, that is, when we yield
to prejudice, we are using the power of thought in the wrong way.
The greatest alertness is therefore necessary to avoid prejudice.
HOW SHOULD WE CHANGE OURSELVES?
Things of the past are in the past, they cannot be changed by
any means. But from this moment, you can change yourself and for
that, every assistance is available, every power is available.
And what is the higher sin even than that? It is to deny this
opportunity for self-correction and go on, on the path of evolution,
and seek to remain as we are, with foolish ideas, animalistic
ideas of pleasure, enjoyment, freedom, things like that. So Master
said, "That is a bigger sin than any sin you can possibly
commit with your body."
Why do we come to a Master? I think it is by an inner feeling
of this truth, an inner realisation of this truth, that most people
who come to spirituality come here at all. It shows an inner discontent
with what we are. Otherwise, there is no reason, I mean, I cannot
imagine a possible reason for trying to change yourself. No one
will attempt to change himself or herself if they are really happy
with themselves and their circumstance. So the seed of change,
inner change, comes from discontent with what we are, discontent,
dissatisfaction, disappointment, whatever it be.
Unfortunately, human beings try to handle this discontent by
further satiation in the pleasures that they are having. By imagining
that the pleasure which one bottle of wine could not give, could
be given by a second bottle, or by a third bottle. So, stupidly,
self-destructively, we indulge in repetitive activities of this
sort. So we are faced with this rather fascinating but un-understandable
fact that the highest education, the highest technology has only
created self-destructive tendencies. And these tendencies have
to be corrected, and therefore there is all the more need for
yogic pursuits.
The only thing which goes on eternally without any help from
us is the Devil. God needs our help to help us. And what is this
help that we have to give Him? Babuji called it cooperation. Co-operation
- to work together with. God can lift a mountain. God can revolve
a planet. He can twist the universe around into nothing. But He
cannot change a human being, because what changes a human being
is not God - it is himself.
WHAT IS OUR ROLE IN THE PROCESS OF CHANGE?
Raja yoga uses the mind to train itself, to regulate itself. And
here the grace of the Guru, or the Master is necessary, because
however much we may use the mind, and however we may perfect it,
if the human tendencies we have brought into this birth are not
changed, then the mind continues to work in the same way as before,
only more powerfully now. So one of the fundamental techniques
of Sahaj Marg, perhaps the most important, is what we call cleaning.
It is my Master's teaching that, by our thoughts and actions of
the past, we have created impressions of those thoughts and actions
upon ourselves. And when these impressions become very strong
they become the cause of action in a similar repetitive pattern,
very much like a gramophone record plays the same music again
and again.
Now, my Master says, "To correct this way of living, this
calamitous situation, the heartbreaking society today, change
cannot be brought by legislation or by preaching." It is
not necessary to tell you that governments have failed, the church
has also failed. Because both have not been able to touch the
heart of the human beings. And unless there is a change of heart,
and change in what the heart says is right, and our willingness
to accept that voice from the heart, we are like automobiles going
downhill faster and faster. We can only crash. The change of direction
must come only by refining the tendencies of the heart, by purifying
the heart, and this is what we are attempting to do in our yogic
technique of Sahaj Marg, recognizing that the voice which was
inside the heart, known as the conscience, has virtually ceased
to exist. Fortunately it is still there but so weak that we cannot
hear it. Because the more you disregard it and push it back, the
more it subsides.
Now the only way of bringing it out again into the open and making
it an effective instrument for guiding our life is to purify the
heart, listen more and more to it, and guide your lives by the
way the heart wants you to go. The need to accept that we are
going wrong is of paramount importance. Because so long as you
think you are right, even God cannot change you. And God is not
necessary. We do not call God to change the direction of our cars.
We can do it ourselves. Here too, it is possible for us to do
it ourselves. And to be able to do it is what we try to teach
in our yogic system.
To face change, which means to face the future, one requires
courage and faith. Faith that change is inevitable, faith in the
fact or acceptance of the fact that change cannot be avoided.
When you have to stop motion - it is like that famous story about
the man who made the Earth stand still and there was such violent
storms and natural cataclysms that all life forms and everything
on the surface of the Earth was destroyed. Because when the Earth
is moving, the envelope of the atmosphere moves. When you suddenly
stop the Earth, it is like when you are in the bus which is moving
very fast. The driver brakes and you all hit your nose against
the front seat.
Now, to change myself, again we come to this problem of attitudes,
desires, likes and dislikes, all because of Samskaras. So Sahaj
Marg says, "clean it out." But people want to clean
out selectively. All or nothing is the formula for success or
failure in spirituality. I want to remind you that there is no
success or failure attached to the Master. He is doing his work.
Success or failure is yours.
HOW DOES CHANGE MANIFEST?
Growth involves change. Can there ever be progress without change?
Can a baby become an adult without changing? Can a seed become
a tree and yield fruit without change? Change is thus perceived
to be an integral part of the growth process. In fact it is change
which brings about the desired result, and what we really work
for, is to bring about such change. My Master has stated categorically
that there can be no progress without change. When things cease
to change, a stage sets in which can be justifiably called death,
looked at, in this way, death can be said to be a cessation of
the process of change. That is, death is the cessation of growth.
Spiritual progress, Spiritual growth involves change. Progress,
after all, is nothing but a change for the better in our condition.
The Sadhana is the process created by my Master to bring about
continuing change for our spiritual betterment, from moment to
moment. If we ponder over it, we shall see that a resistance to
change is a resistance to our own growth and progress. Can we
stop change? Is there any one capable of arresting change? No!
Change is inevitable. It is a law of Nature that things must change,
must evolve. Change is thus seen to be inescapable. My Master
has said that the only permanent thing in the universe is change.
We must be grateful for this because if it were not so, progress,
all growth would cease.
When we accept change, we accept the Master's will. When we accept
it totally and unreservedly, with the faith that it is essential
for all progress, the stage of surrender sets in. Surrender, looked
at in this way is a humble submission to the process of change
that my Master 'Initiates' in us, for our growth to the highest
levels of spirituality available to mankind.
WHAT EVOLUTION DOES CHANGE BRING?
The fundamental necessity behind evolution is change. There can
be no evolution without change. So change has to be accepted,
in anything, whether it is a house, whether it is a personal growth,
or a system of knowledge.
The only permanent thing in the universe is change. This inevitability
of change is the foundation for all our hopes and aspirations.
At the lowest level, our hopes are for a betterment in the human
condition; at the highest level it is an aspiration for spiritual
evolution to the highest! Whatever our hopes may be for, hope
is founded upon the possibility of change. Hope exists in our
hearts only because we naturally and intuitively perceive the
inevitability of change, which gives us the understanding that
under no circumstances can the present continue as it is. It must
change into something else.
It is this aspiration for change that is reflected in our hearts
as a hope for the future. Without change, therefore, there can
be no future. It is this perception of the process of change,
and its promise for the future, which makes us strive to become
something which we are not! Change alone holds out the possibility
of progress. It is change that offers us the promise of growth,
and the certainty of becoming what our Divine Master wishes us
to become. Viewed in this way, change is the process of becoming!
The Divine Personality, our Benevolent Master, has come down only
for effecting such change to enable us to become what He wants
us to become. Our Beloved Master is thus seen to be a Divine agent
of Change!
Can we oppose change? Do we have the power to prevent change?
If we oppose change, we are really opposing His Will. Our duty
clearly lies in speeding up the process of change by dedicated
Sadhana, so that our journey to the destination, our Original
Home, is accelerated.
HOW IS GLOBAL CHANGE POSSIBLE?
Disciplined parents produce disciplined children. Loving parents
create loving children. So this is a lesson to the parents, you
see. We are talking of child indiscipline, student indiscipline,
youth indiscipline, when the real source of all that indiscipline
is in the parents. And it is never too late because, like children
can change, parents must also be willing to change. And when we
recognize this, I mean, when the parents recognize this and they
are willing to change, you find their children hug them and kiss
them with such love as you have never known in your life.
Nothing can change without you yourself changing. When you change,
the universe changes with you. We know that each one of us is
the centre of his or her own universe, so there is not just one
universe, there are as many universes as there are people in this
world.
So when we talk of changing the universe, what we really mean
is to change all these universes, which is impossible. There is
the possibility that each one of us can change his own individual
universe. All change starts from the Centre, so we have to start
changing our universe from the centre of that universe, which
is our own heart. That is the main reason why Sahaj Marg teaches
meditation on the heart.
My personal universe cannot change one atom whether I become
richer or poorer, whether I become more educated or less educated,
whether I become stronger or weaker physically. But everytime
I have a change of heart in my heart, my universe changes to that
extent. And the change is from the core outwards, so that it permeates
every structure of that universe. This is the reason why we have
to accept the need for change with our hearts, accept it in our
hearts, and without that, progress is impossible.
We have a very beautiful example in Indian philosophy: A perfect
man is supposed to be like a coconut. The outside remains the
same, but the inner coconut has dried and shrunk and is free of
the surroundings. You can hear it rattling inside. That is, the
real coconut has become dry, desiccated, qualityless and exists
like a ball inside the shell which is only a covering. There is
a saying that it exists in its own universe, but there is no contact
with that universe at all. Similarly a spiritually perfect man
- his heart is in the body but not of the body. It should not
have any attachment with the body.
In the normal human being everything we do with the body affects
the heart. In the spiritual person the body must reflect what
is going on in the heart. Instead of the life of the body regulating
the heart, the life of the heart must now regulate the body and
the whole universe itself.
So the spiritual practice must begin with the heart. The qualities
of the heart must be changed. The ability of the heart to affect
must be changed, that is, instead of affecting me, myself, it
must affect everybody in this universe, the whole universe itself.
And all this is made possible only when we accept the need for
changing from our inside and not from our outside. And the easiest
way is to receive the Master of the Universe in your hearts and
let Him rule the universe from inside you rather than from outside
you.
External changes can be brought about only by bringing about
changes in the inner being of the human. If we are serious about
bringing about lasting changes in society, we must apply all our
efforts to changing the individuals of which society is after
all composed. Society is only an agglomeration of individuals.
If society is to be transformed, the individuals must first be
transformed.
When you change something in a painting, you don't only change
something, you change the whole thing. The whole painting changes.
So if I am changing myself, the whole universe must change. And
that is what Philosophy says, that is what religions have preached:
Change yourself and the universe changes. But if you try
to change that, you cannot make a duck into a peacock. Isn't it?
So the secret of universal change is to change yourself.
"We have to go on changing until we come to a state,
where there is no more possibility of change.
That is the eternal change."
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