Dharma only means discipline.
A life which has no discipline is no life at all."
We know what we have to achieve. We know where
we are. Now, we have to join these two things. The beginning
and the end have to be joined or brought together by a process
of activity, which we call sadhana in spirituality. Now, you
see, there can be no sadhana without discipline attendant on
it.
WHAT IS DISCIPLINE?
An orderly existence means discipline. Driving on the right,
giving way to traffic, obeying the red lights, in short, a sacrifice
of a certain degree of personal freedom to achieve a general
order, as a universal measure, for general and universal welfare.
And the more the well-being or the greater the degree of well-being
that we desire, the greater the sacrifice of personal freedom.
Discipline means conforming to the need of
the moment. You see, without discipline you cannot control
your body, you cannot regulate your intelligence and your intellectual
functioning, least of all can you regulate your mind. This is
what happens to those who have neglected discipline totally,
become totally self-indulgent. They become the prey of cigarettes,
drugs, alcohol - everything. They have lost control over themselves,
and now they are the prey of things which their desire made
them approach.
So, when is the time to avoid something which
is bad? From the first moment. When is the time to accept something
which is good and beneficial to us? From that moment itself.
Therefore in spiritual parlance, my Master used to say, "Here
and now." When should I be good? When should I be well-behaved?
Right now is the moment. When should I eat? Now, when I am hungry,
not day after tomorrow. Isn't it? So, it means regulation over
my body. I must move only when I want to move, when I desire
to move, when I must move. Otherwise if a man walks in his sleep,
you go to the doctor. He is a sleepwalker. Isn't it? Similarly,
I must have regulation over my mental, intellectual equipment.
I must be able to think when I must. So we must have our body
and mind oriented towards the regulation of the inner self,
the ultimate mastery of the inner self, which alone leads you
to a Master.
We must remember Babuji's definition for a disciple,
"One who is disciplined alone is a disciple.'' Now
in the ancient tradition, there are so many definitions for
who a disciple is - one who serves, one who learns under a Master,
one who is obedient. But our concept of a disciple is a total
one. When Babuji said 'discipline', He did not mean worship
of a guru, or cooking his food, or pressing his feet at night.
That is by way of service, you see. Service is one expression,
one way of expressing one's love.
Very often we do not know what we have to do and
how to do it. How to know what we have to do with discipline?
Just obey. Leave everything to the Master. Do what He says.
If He says, "sit,'' sit down; if He says, "stand,''
stand up; if He says, "eat,'' eat. It is very difficult
because, you know, sometimes I have found people coming to Babuji
and He is giving them some prasad, holy, sacred, charged with
his grace, and then the man says, "No, no, Babuji, I am
a diabetic. I am not permitted to take sweets.'' He himself
called it a sweet, the Guru offers prasad. So here comes the
need for discipline. So what matters if you die of diabetes
if the Guru's grace is permitting your entire system to be purified,
not only ensuring but guaranteeing your health? What matters?
This bodily life, that it is so important that you are even
willing to say 'no' to the Guru's Prasadam? Because, self-interest
comes there. We forget the Master, we forget the Prasad, we
forget the Divine grace, we are only remembering our diabetes
or whatever it may be at that moment. Master knows what is good
for his disciple.
You may do all the yoga in the world, but if you
have no discipline you cannot be anybody's disciple. This is
my Master's definition. How can I possibly be a disciple of
my Master without obedience to the principles, that he has put
before me first? You know that famous principle, that the maker
of the law must be its first servant.
LEVELS OF DISCIPLINE
First Level: The first one is a level of discipline for
mutual understanding, like we have grammar in language. Certain
words must have certain meaning, certain words must be associated
with each other in certain ways, if they are to convey the same
meaning to all of us. We cannot each one have a German language
for ourselves and claim independence and say, "This is
my German, that is your German, this is his German," because
nobody would understand each other. So mutual understanding
means; not only means, it demands that there is a structure,
a common structure, and common rules formulated so that we can
understand each other in our human intercourse. So that is the
level of understanding. I am only giving grammar as an example.
Second Level: You can think of so many
things like the rules of the road - traffic rules - obedience
of the red lights, green lights, yellow lights......, which
shows a second level: not only for understanding how to move
on the roads, but how to protect each other by obeying these
rules. Because at that stage it is not only understanding which
suffers, but we can kill each other and many others too. So
the second level of discipline is protection; protection of
ourselves, protection of others. And here the protection of
the others takes precedence over the protection of the self.
I have to respect your life more than I respect my own. Therefore
governments, traffic authorities, they punish. Punishment is
not something of which we should be afraid, or which we should
abhor. I find repeatedly people referring to Babuji wanting
to discipline us with love. What is this love which disciplines
us, and yet fails? The proof of the pudding is in the eating.
So if you have more concern for another person than for yourself,
you have to subjugate your desire, your dominance, your wishes
to the requirements, to the safety, to the welfare of the other
person. Traffic rules therefore say that you shall not overtake
at certain places, you don't glare your headlights in the other
man's eyes and lead him into an accident, you can overtake only
when the road is free......, things like that.
So, the first level is understanding, the second level is mutual
protection: the other more than myself.
Third level: It is only related to personal
growth. A discipline which we formulate for ourselves, which
we obey by ourselves not subjugated to any external authority,
not in obedience to anybody else, but I obey myself, I formulate
rules for myself, so that I can grow. When a man is self-restrained
and refrains from alcohol, for instance, it is his welfare he
has at heart. It is not that he is obeying the government which
says, don't drink. It is a very wrong way of looking at things
to say prohibition is an imposition. That it failed does not
disqualify the wisdom of the act, because in that way all religions
are failures, all moral movements have been failures, our lives
themselves are failures.
The failure or the success of an endeavour does
not prove its rightness or wrongness. This is a typically western
idea of looking at things, that the success of a venture proves
its worth. The success has nothing to do with it, the success
was only a result of how well we have applied the principle,
of how dedicatedly we have practiced those principles, with
how much truth we have continued to do it. If these things are
given as premises, success has to follow. In such cases, failure
is not a failure of the movement or of the truth or of the teaching,
it is a failure of ourselves in that application.
When we wish to develop, when we wish to grow,
our inner Self dictates to us what we should do, what we should
not do, and the obedience is not to somebody outside myself,
it is to myself. If this is very clearly understood, there will
be no rebellion against moral law, against moral authority,
because the moral law is my own formulation for my own benefit;
the moral authority is my inner self, telling my external superficial,
rowdy self what I should do and what I should not do for my
own welfare, for my own growth.
There is yet a fourth level of discipline
which perhaps we have all realised without being able to give
a word to, without being able to give expression to, and that
is the discipline of a person like my master, who consumes himself,
who gives up his life so that others may grow. He had achieved
what he had achieved. He could have very well said, "good
bye, Lalaji; good bye world! I am going to my holiday home,
so that I can spend the rest of my life in peace.'' But that
level of discipline says, "No more shall you think of yourself.
Your comforts are meaningless, your hunger is meaningless, you
don't exist anymore for yourself, you exist for them. And their
welfare is your welfare; their happiness is your happiness;
their growth is entrusted to you. In the fulfilment of that
growth is the fulfilment of your own law, is the fulfilment
of the obedience of the promise you gave to Lalaji.
You see it is very glib, and it is very easy to
praise Master and sit and laugh, and weep sometimes, how much
he did for us, how much he loved us; but if any of us have one
percent of the admiration for Him that we speak about when we
talk about Him, we should touch our hearts and ask, "Am
I willing to be like Him?" Not only in discipline, not
only in teaching others, not only in sitting and giving transmission
- this everyone is able to do, preceptors are able to do it,
we don't need masters for that - Am I willing to consume myself
for the welfare of others? Babuji used to give the example of
a candle as an expression of a spiritual life. He said that
it consumes itself, it burns itself, it destroys itself to illuminate
others!
So this is the highest level, the fourth level of discipline
- that He exists only to destroy Himself; He exists only to
give us comfort; He exists only to give us knowledge; He exists
only to teach us without a single moment of thought for himself.
And if we just stop with praising Him and writing about Him
and talking of His love and don't emulate Him, it would be the
most shameful treatment of the Master that you can give. If
you want to fulfill His purpose, His existence, and make of
it a success, we have everyone to become like Him, and that
means that we have to start with the first level of discipline
- not in obedience to any external authority, but in obedience
to our own inner voice, then proceed to the second level, go
on to the third level, and when we end up at the fourth level,
then we will make true, Master's statement that He did not create
disciples, but that He created masters.
SELF DISCIPLINE
It is said that a Master is more a mother than a father. The
father is good for discipline. But nowadays parents, without
self-discipline want to impose discipline on their children.
And largely we fail because when the son grows up or the daughter
grows up, and they are old enough to understand what is going
on - they say, "What are you doing? How are you behaving?
How are you conducting your business?" This is how family
structures are disintegrating, are being destroyed by corruption,
where there is truthless existence, where father dare not tell
the truth to his son, where the son dare not face the truth
of his father's existence, and we are frittering away our existence
in foolish trivialities.
A discipline which cannot come from within yourself
is no discipline at all. It is enforced, and when the force
that is enforcing it is removed, then will come the situation,
which we say, you know, 'when the cat is away the mice are at
play'. That is no discipline at all. So, the only lasting discipline
is that discipline which a man creates from within himself.
So the most important aspect of discipline is
self-discipline. We are all obedient, especially in India, when
we see a policeman. We do not spit anywhere, we do not enter
a "No Entry" street, we do not park in a "No
Parking" place. That is why there are so many policemen
in our country you see, because signs are not enough. There
must be a policeman even when multimillionaires who are educated
at Harvard say, "It does not matter," - nobody is
looking at you, you go through the street - "I will save
half a litre of petrol." This is the fallacy and tragedy
of this country that, discipline has to be imposed upon us at
all levels from the highest to the lowest.
If the highest were disciplined, automatically
the lowest would be disciplined. It is a truth, that if the
father is a disciplined person, he obeys the natural laws and
is disciplined in his existence, the son automatically patterns
himself on the behaviour of the father. Now here lies the tragedy
that unless you are disciplined, you cannot discipline your
son or your daughter. Unless you are obedient, you cannot make
your son obedient. Those who are in authority at the highest
positions in the land, unless they are disciplined, moral, ethical,
how can they enforce ethics and morality upon the people?
Whether it is a preceptor or a Master, it does
not matter. We must be disciplined first, before we can teach
discipline to others or expect discipline from others. Now this
is what I would like our preceptors to understand very keenly
with their hearts. I mean, intellectual understanding exists.
It is not enough. An abhyasi comes for a sitting, the preceptor
says, "I am too busy, come tomorrow." So if the preceptors
would only understand that, if a man comes with a great burden
in his heart, he needs a cleaning, he wants a sitting, some
sympathy, some words of love from the preceptor and the preceptor
abruptly says, "what do you mean by coming to me at this
time? Come tomorrow. Seven o' clock is my sitting time"
- it is a disservice not so much to the abhyasi you see, as
to his Master, from whom he has undertaken this responsibility
voluntarily. It is never imposed on anybody, voluntarily we
have accepted the job of serving humanity by serving our Master.
So the preceptors must understand that they are servants of
the Master twenty four hours a day. If the preceptor lacks discipline,
he is no more fit for the job. Preceptor's insult, if taken
seriously, is Master's insult.
DISCIPLINE IN OUR DAILY LIFE
We are all familiar with the idea that people think they are
disciplined. But somebody else finds they are not so disciplined.
I have found that people are by and large very sincere. And,
even their apparent indiscipline springs, not from the intention
to be undisciplined, but because they don't really understand
what it is. I have found that when we meet in Shahjahanpur,
or in places like this, it generates a great deal of love and
a consequent discipline. But it seems to evaporate when the
function is over. It is because people do not realise that discipline
is not something of a momentary interest or a momentary need.
It cannot be said that discipline is necessary here but not
on the street; or that discipline is necessary in the Ashram
but not at home; or that it is only among abhyasis but not among
the general public. It is an unfortunate fact of our education
- educational system I should say - that we are taught that
discipline is a need of the moment for certain situations and
not others. For instance, when our son goes to school we tell
him, "Don't misbehave in school," which can possibly
give him the implication that he need not be well behaved in
the house.
So, discipline is a way of life. It has
no specific situational impact or need. Nor is it limited to
the need of a moment. It must be the governing factor of our
24 hour daily existence; and what it really means is regulation.
Discipline does not mean enforced rules, obedience - all that
is nonsense you see. That is why most people rebel against discipline.
They think it leads to lack of freedom. But what discipline
really gives is an orderly life. Everything should be done when
it should be done. Because you will appreciate that you cannot
put out today's fire tomorrow, or cure yesterday's illness next
year. So the first thing to be understood is that, each
thing has to be done when it must be done. See, Babuji used
to be quite upset when people would come late for meditation.
He never gave public expression to it. But after the meditation
He would ask me privately; "Can these people afford to
go late for a train, or do they go late for a cinema?"
So, everything in its time.
Second requirement is to lay down an order
of priorities of what should be done, when and where. That means,
ascribing to each activity its relative importance. What is
the most important thing I have to do? That should be done first.
The next important, the second and so on. But we find students
when they should be studying they are at the football ground.
And then, they are upset when they are told, "You should
not be playing now." And they will even quote, "A
healthy mind in a healthy body," all these things! But
people do not explain to them: "Yes, my dear son, you need
exercise, but this is the time for study." Similarly meditation.
If an abhyasi understands that the spiritual life is the most
important thing for him, then he will give the greatest importance
to Satsangh. But they have not yet understood the importance
of the spiritual life; therefore they are willing to sacrifice
sadhana for a brief moment of pleasure or fun. So, when we have
a list of priorities - "What is most important, what is
the second most important," we have become accustomed to
dealing with our situations, life situations, in a relative
grade of importance. So, relative importance governs every activity
of our lives.
VARIETIES OF DISCIPLINE
All that discipline means is, following it. For example, when
a pilot is about to take off in a plane, they have a check list.
No. 1,2,3,4....... he has to press every switch and see it is
functioning. And, when the complete check list has been gone
through and every thing is okay, then only can he take off.
What do we do? We go to the station, we have no tickets; they
are left at home! Because, we have not bothered to check: "Do
I have my money? Do I have my ticket? Do I have myself with
me? Or, have I left myself at home?" The last statement
is not a joke, though it appears amusing. Because, Babuji once
told me that most of us leave ourselves behind when we come
for Satsangh. What it means is that my body is here but my mind
is at home.
Discipline is of several varieties: physical,
mental and moral.
Physical discipline: Sit where you should sit. Sit in
the way you should sit. Maintain silence during meditation,
in fact, at all times. When it is not necessary to speak, you
should be silent. Now, because we are unable to be silent, we
speak. Most people who speak today speak because they don't
know how to be silent. When you can learn to be silent, you
don't need any admonishment to be still, because a still mind
makes for a still body. But we have to start. Sit: we must sit.
Sit still: We must be still. If you are able to do this, we
are able to still the mind to a certain extent, which is the
purpose of meditation.
Mental discipline: Don't think of other
things when you are meditating. Am I able to discipline my mind?
Then the next step is given. If your mind is straying, bring
it gently back to the object of our meditation. You are taught
how to do it. "No, no sir, I get too many thoughts."
"Yes, why do you allow yourself to get so many thoughts?"
A technique is there. When the first disturbing thought came,
if you got your mind back to the meditation, I dare say, the
second disturbing thought would not come.
But what is important to understand is that if
there is no mental discipline, physical discipline cannot exist.
That is why we meditate; to achieve regulation over the mind,
make it disciplined, make it possible for us to apply the mind
where we choose, apply it, not use it, apply it - and thereby
achieve a 100% strength of mind, which makes possible that promise
of yoga, that a yogi will be skillful in anything he does.
Moral discipline: I have often said that
in India, this unfortunate concept, that morality is only in
the sex life of the individual, is a tragedy in this country.
That is not a proper understanding of morality. Morality is
in everything that we do. Am I doing what my Master would have
done in this situation? It has nothing to do with truth or lies,
it has nothing to do with celibacy or non-celibacy, even adultery.
Is it what the Master would have done in this circumstance,
in this situation? Let me do that. I believe this is to be the
test of morality.
So, discipline is not something of the moment,
for the moment. It is like our breathing which supports our
circulation. It cannot afford to stop for even one minute. A
man who has stopped breathing for a few minutes is a man who
has stopped breathing for ever. Similarly, when a man has stopped
being disciplined for some time, he has stopped being disciplined
for ever.
LOVE AND DISCIPLINE
Unless one's total life in existence is in discipline, we
are lacking in discipline. Hatred needs no discipline, but
love must have discipline. And the more you love the Master,
the more you must have discipline. Discipline, not because we
are going to lock the gates or put barbed wire fences, but because
there is an open door, into which I must not enter, unless I
am called in. In my opinion, in my experience, open doors are
the most forbidding of doors, because they invite, while saying
no. It is like flashing a green and red light simultaneously
at the oncoming car. He doesn't know whether to go or stop.
What should tell you which light to obey? Your heart! Refer
to your heart. Does it mean that the door is open for me? Where
love is, there must be humility.
Everybody wants love, but they do not want the
discipline. But if you think on the lines of the old Vedic instruction
in India, love cannot exist without discipline. Is it possible?
What is love combined with discipline? It is marriage. When
you seek love outside marriage without the discipline of marriage,
it is called lust, it is called vice, it is called so many things.
When a child is born from love, arising out of the disciplined
conduct of the love life in marriage, it is a legitimate child.
But if the child is born without the benefit of marriage, without
the sanction of society, without the sanction of moral laws,
the child is called a bastard. So the oldest teaching of India
is that love and discipline are two sides of one coin. This
must be very clearly understood. Because for the ordinary human
being, we all want love, but we do not want discipline.
Love and discipline go together. We have a saying
in Tamil which I would like to translate in English, that "The
hand that beats is the hand that hugs." Why I am saying
this is, that love and discipline are really two sides of the
same coin. What this saying in Tamil means, that the hand that
beats is the hand that hugs, should be clear - that only one
who loves will be bold enough to also discipline, correct. And
in a person or in a society, when this ability to correct is
lost, that means love is also lost.
Without this basic structure of love supporting
discipline in guiding a new life through its course, that life
is a wasted life. When the mother conceives, she has to be disciplined.
She must not smoke, drink, or take drugs. Because there is a
child growing up in her, a new life. If you love that child,
if the child is born out of love, you will discipline yourself.
After all, by your actions you are protecting the child which
is growing in the womb. Is it not logical to continue that protection
and guidance after the child has become independent of you physically,
but not emotionally, not in a life-living way?
If you want to correct other people, the foundation
of that ability to correct, that willingness to correct, the
love alone that can make you correct others, is to discipline
yourself first. Otherwise it will not work. Absolutely. So we
come back to the purpose of Sahaj Marg: that if each one of
you here is not willing to correct yourself, you have no right,
no authority, to correct others. You have no moral right to
correct others. You lose the ability to correct others. You
lose the ability even to correct yourself - you have already
lost it. He who would help others must help himself first to
be strong. If I want to cure sick people, I must be able to
be a doctor myself first. If I wish to give money in charity,
I must earn money first. If I want to teach people, I must teach
myself first. Always.
It is love alone which can give the ability to
correct, the ability to teach in the right way, and the ability
to discipline. And such love comes out and shines only when
it is backed by self-discipline of the one who is giving this
corrective discipline, because that alone gives you the moral
courage, the moral faith, the moral right to discipline others.
So, there is no use if there is love not backed by discipline.
Authoritarian discipline is easy to enforce but difficult to
uphold, whereas discipline growing out of love is self-maintained,
self-created. We are not disciplined by the outside, but we
become disciplined ourselves. We accept it as a necessity with
which to guide our lives.
It is the love that God has for us that is transmitted,
and it is that love which makes us grow. And that is why there
is no compulsory discipline in Sahaj Marg; because love cannot
demand or force; love must evoke. Therefore even the Ten Maxims
tell us only what to do and leave it to us to do it when we
have developed sufficient love for the Master and for our Goal.
FREEDOM AND DISCIPLINE
Children are not being trained properly by their parents in
the name of freedom. Children are going to the dogs in the name
of personal freedom. Love at fourteen, sex at sixteen, child
at seventeen - in the name of freedom. What is this freedom
where there is no discipline? So if you think you love your
children, for heaven's sake, start disciplining them, so that
later on the children may not say, "My parents never cared
about me." At least we should be aware to this extent,
that our children should not blame us later for not having cared
about them. You see, care is shown - what is caring for somebody?
Caring for their welfare - not caring for their freedom. Freedom,
society grants, governments grant, but society doesn't care
for people, governments don't care for people.
Care begins at home. Care is a sacred thing. It
is not enough to breed and send them out in the name of freedom.
If you care for your children, you should teach them, you should
train them, you should correct them. If you are not able to
do that, you are not fit to be a parent, and you cannot parade
on this pretext of freedom. "My children are old enough
to look after themselves." No child is old enough to look
after itself. We are not fledglings in a nest, you know, that
the mother can push it out and say, "Let it fly, or let
the cat take it." We are supposed to be a cultured society,
a human society, a caring society, a loving society. If love
means care, care can come only out of discipline.
I find this even in our own relationship between
the abhyasi and the spiritual trainer. Whether it is me or somebody
else, it doesn't matter. That correction, or corrective advice
is always resented. But what are you here for if you are not
here to be corrected and to be developed into something that
you can be proud of, yourself? So you see, discipline is absolutely
necessary, and if we try to correct you, it should be taken
as an expression of love.
I request all the preceptors to be flexible in
their approach, but the abhyasis must be disciplined. You see,
it is always a very strange anomaly, that discipline and freedom
must go together. There cannot be freedom without discipline,
and there must not be discipline without freedom. So how much
of each we need depends on us. At the lowest level of our existence
we totally need discipline and have a little freedom. At the
highest level of existence we have absolute freedom, but have
to discipline ourselves so that we may conform to social requirements,
legal requirements.
So this is the strange paradox of existence, that
discipline and freedom go together like everything else, like
light and shadow, like darkness and light, like vice and virtue,
like truth and lies. All opposites. So we begin with externally
imposed discipline and rise progressively until we discipline
ourselves from inside ourselves. At the first stage it is artificial,
enforced from outside. At the top it is natural, my own way
of existence. It is no longer a discipline I obey - I am
disciplined.
You people must learn to understand that love
and freedom and discipline go together. There can be no freedom
unless it's a disciplined freedom. You have this on your highways:
keep to the right, flick your lights when you want to overtake,
or when you want to change lanes, wait and give way to the other
traffic. This is all discipline, and it goes with the freedom
of being able to go accident-free, on the roads.
HIGHER GOALS REQUIRE HIGHER DISCIPLINES
I used to wonder, why there are certain cults, organisations,
systems, where discipline seems to be inculcated the moment
you step into that. You know, there are margs (systems),
where the discipline is so absolute that a deviation from discipline
can cost you your life, I mean physical mortal existence can
be terminated at the whims and fancies of the leaders of the
cult and sect. But it is not fear of death alone which makes
people disciplined. There seems to be a fervour, an eagerness
to accept that discipline.
And, I used to wonder why, in the so-called nobler
traditions where man is thrown upon his own integrity and his
own assessment of what he should become, or what he should be
to start with - this discipline does not come? Then, one day
I heard my Master's voice telling me that "the degree
of discipline depends on the Goal." You see, hitherto
I had imagined that discipline per se will make the goal achievable.
That is, if I am disciplined enough, I should achieve the goal.
It is like saying, if I walk long enough I must get to my destination.
If I eat long enough, I must fill my stomach, things like that
you see. But I have found this funny contradiction, that in
many societies where the highest discipline exists there is
no spirituality; and the other way, where the highest spirituality
exists there seems to be almost a total lack of discipline.
Now, I am not trying to justify the lack of discipline in a
high-minded organisation, or to decry the existence of discipline
in those, where there is no apparent spiritual growth. But there
is a definite hiatus, there is a definite incommensurability
between these two things.
Even though Sahaj Marg offers the highest goal,
how many of the abhyasis have really accepted that goal as their
individual personal goals? If you have accepted the highest
goal as your individual goal, you will also accept the highest
discipline as being necessary for the achievement of that goal.
The degree of discipline is linked very rightly with the greatness,
the height, to which we aspire for. For instance, if I just
wish to remain seated in my chair, I don't need much discipline.
I have to sit in that chair, after that I can forget it. But
if I have to walk, I have to remember that I have to walk on
the left side; I should not cross the road where there are no
crossing-indications, things like that, you see. If I have to
go in a car, the rules become even more stringent. If I have
to fly, they have to become much more stringent still.
One who aspires to the Highest, must be prepared
for the highest discipline. Not because that discipline
will lead him to the Goal, but because the Goal sets these limits
without which you cannot achieve it. It is like this you know,
you can travel in a bus with your windows open, but you cannot
fly in a plane with your windows open. You may say, "I
want air. I would like to wave to my wife who is standing outside."
So this restriction, rather these restrictions seem to narrow
the way little by little, and put in a squeezing pressure from
behind, so that we have only one way in which we can possibly
walk, and this is to the destination.
In essence, discipline does not lead automatically
to achievement, but achievement is not possible without discipline.
Now, this paradoxical statement, I would think, some of you
would be able to work out, remembering that, for petty trivial
things, you don't need much discipline. That is why I think
most people who have lesser aims are so undisciplined. Because
they don't need discipline for those achievements. And it is
possible precisely because, their aims are so petty that even
with corruption they can achieve that.
But can you educate yourself without discipline?
That only means, something worthwhile achieving, something worthwhile
striving for, has to be a disciplined activity. I can become
a millionaire by doing something [hooky-cooky] in a hanky-panky
way. According to the Vedas, you can have a 'pisacha'
(devil) marriage by doing anything you like. But a Vedic
marriage should have the sanction of society, the sanction of
parents, the sanction of Divinity itself. One can get away
at the lowest level with no discipline at all. At the highest
level, lack of discipline means probably death.
The strict disciplinarian wants more discipline.
The freedom-loving person wants less discipline, not understanding
that discipline is neither interference with freedom, nor a
lack of freedom, nor super-freedom. Discipline is discipline.
Discipline is a way of life. It should have no restrictions.
Essentially, we should discipline ourselves from inside. Now
there is an old adage which says, "That country has a good
government which has no government." "Oh, how can
a country be governed if it has no government?" That is
precisely the problem, you see, that is precisely the beauty.
And I dare to venture to think that someday we should do away
with our ten maxims too. If all abhyasis are disciplined, they
wake up naturally before dawn, they have a nice place to meditate,
naturally they go and meditate, they only eat pious food out
of pious earnings, which all becomes natural. What is the need
for ten maxims, and then for the commentary on the ten maxims?
So we have to create within ourselves the only
source of discipline whereby, by being disciplined, we will
not know that we are disciplined. You know, Sahaj Marg terminology,
phraseology delights in these apparent contradictions. Freedom
without freedom; freedom from freedom. If you know you are disciplined,
you are still in bondage. Such a person does not know whether
he is alive or dead. Therefore, of God it is said, 'He is.'
He was not born; He can never die - anadi, anantam.
So, what I would finally say is that discipline is regulating
your own activity yourself, to lead to the maximization of your
life's potential in all spheres of activity - mental, moral,
spiritual, in everything. So, kindly try to start it from today.
I shall pray for your success.
"Discipline is the elementary step
of surrender."