How Is Global Change Possible?
Disciplined parents produce disciplined children.
Loving parents create loving children. So this is a lesson
to the parents, you see. We are talking of child indiscipline,
student indiscipline, youth indiscipline, when the real source
of all that indiscipline is in the parents. And it is never
too late because, like children can change, parents must also
be willing to change. And when we recognize this, I mean,
when the parents recognize this and they are willing to change,
you find their children hug them and kiss them with such love
as you have never known in your life.
Nothing can change without you yourself changing. When
you change, the universe changes with you. We know that
each one of us is the centre of his or her own universe,
so there is not just one universe, there are as many universes
as there are people in this world.
So when we talk of changing the universe, what we really
mean is to change all these universes, which is impossible.
There is the possibility that each one of us can change
his own individual universe. All change starts from the
Centre, so we have to start changing our universe from the
centre of that universe, which is our own heart. That is
the main reason why Sahaj Marg teaches meditation on the
heart.
My personal universe cannot change one atom whether I become
richer or poorer, whether I become more educated or less
educated, whether I become stronger or weaker physically.
But everytime I have a change of heart in my heart, my universe
changes to that extent. And the change is from the core
outwards, so that it permeates every structure of that universe.
This is the reason why we have to accept the need for change
with our hearts, accept it in our hearts, and without that,
progress is impossible.
We have a very beautiful example in Indian philosophy:
A perfect man is supposed to be like a coconut. The outside
remains the same, but the inner coconut has dried and shrunk
and is free of the surroundings. You can hear it rattling
inside. That is, the real coconut has become dry, desiccated,
qualityless and exists like a ball inside the shell which
is only a covering. There is a saying that it exists in
its own universe, but there is no contact with that universe
at all. Similarly a spiritually perfect man - his heart
is in the body but not of the body. It should not have any
attachment with the body.
In the normal human being everything we do with the body
affects the heart. In the spiritual person the body must
reflect what is going on in the heart. Instead of the life
of the body regulating the heart, the life of the heart
must now regulate the body and the whole universe itself.
So the spiritual practice must begin with the heart. The
qualities of the heart must be changed. The ability of the
heart to affect must be changed, that is, instead of affecting
me, myself, it must affect everybody in this universe, the
whole universe itself. And all this is made possible only
when we accept the need for changing from our inside and
not from our outside. And the easiest way is to receive
the Master of the Universe in your hearts and let Him rule
the universe from inside you rather than from outside you.
External changes can be brought about only by bringing
about changes in the inner being of the human. If we are
serious about bringing about lasting changes in society,
we must apply all our efforts to changing the individuals
of which society is after all composed. Society is only
an agglomeration of individuals. If society is to be transformed,
the individuals must first be transformed.
When you change something in a painting, you don't only
change something, you change the whole thing. The whole
painting changes. So if I am changing myself, the whole
universe must change. And that is what Philosophy says,
that is what religions have preached: Change yourself
and the universe changes. But if you try to change that,
you cannot make a duck into a peacock. Isn't it? So the
secret of universal change is to change yourself.
"We have to go on changing until
we come to a state,
where there is no more possibility of change.
That is the eternal change."
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