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Salient Features - Series 3
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"Know all people as thy brethren and treat them as such."

I would like to say a few words on the idea of brotherhood, not to educate you or give you a lecture, but because I find that wrong understanding of this idea of brotherhood has broken up potential associations.

The first idea is that a brotherhood is a small group in a bigger humanity. This is not what Master intended. A group is a group. It is not a group of brothers and sisters. It need not be a group of brothers and sisters. Because if we think like that, then we are isolating ourselves from the rest of humanity, and in some way, excluding the rest of humanity from coming to us.

It is like, if you shut yourself in a room and close the door, you are not only locking yourself in but you are locking everybody else out. You don't have two doors - one for locking others out and one for locking yourself in. Just one door is enough. So similarly, we have these mental doors, you know that we are Sahaj Margis, or we are Rotarians, or we are Catholics, and in trying to preserve a group identity for ourselves, we create the other, who is not us.

That is the first dangerous idea that we have, that we are group of brothers and sisters. I think what my Master wanted was that all of humanity should be brothers and sisters, not a group - even there we cannot be a group. That is why he was always talking of Universal Love and things like that.

We should have no idea that we are distinct from anybody else, or that our group is distinct from anything else. In fact, we should have no idea at all. So that is number one. The second dangerous idea is that within a group, there should always be harmony, in the sense that you seem to mean it. That is, everybody agreeing with everybody else. Such a life would be a very tame and tedious affair. There should be no mutual recrimination, no annoyance, no anger, but certainly, there should be freedom to differ. Everything in nature works that way. You have what you call your solar system. A sun with a number of planets rotating around it. The sun has its own independent motion. It rotates on its own axis, and it is wandering through space within the galaxy. And even though the planets are moving as a family round it, they all have their independence; they all rotate around their own axis; they all rotate around the sun.

So what is it that is important? That even though you may be moving on your own, with total freedom to do so, yet you maintain this cohesiveness of a system. So within that system, we must have total freedom to act as we choose, to behave as we choose, to differ from each other. The only essentiality being that the group's identity, or structure, or cohesiveness of being individuals would be lost.

Now, please don't think that we should deliberately create differences among ourselves. We should try to be harmonious. But it is like the harmony of music where you have 27 instruments clashing away in different parts of the hall - some pipes, some cymbals, some strings, some wind instruments. But the whole thing being guided by a central person - a personality - to produce what you call music, what you call harmony, symphony - so many things. A delight to the soul! The important thing to understand is that each one functions according to its nature. A flute cannot be a violin, nor a cymbal become a pair of tinkling bells. But the important idea is, they work according to the man, we call the conductor. He conducts the music. The individual musicians play according to his instructions.

My submission is that here also, all that is necessary is for us to be ourselves. Learn what we have to do and do it properly under His guidance, and we will find that the interaction of all of us produces a grand harmony and a grand music. And that is what we are trying to achieve in a society like ours. So, do your thing under his guidance and the others, let them follow him and do what he says. And then all that we have been talking about and lecturing about - a harmonious existence, a togetherness, a oneness will become a reality. Not because we are one, in the sense that we are all the same, or we have the same opinion, or we perform similarly, but He, the Master is able to blend together so many individual geniuses, capacities, into a grand harmonic theme.

Nature is beautiful for two reasons. There's a blending of diverse units of existence into a grand and harmonious picture of existence, and there is a total freedom for the individual units, to express their existence in many, many divergent ways. Chillies, in cooking, must be chillies, not tomatoes. Tomatoes cannot be potatoes.

So it is the Master's business to blend a number of diverse units into a harmony. That is His work. When we, as members of the unit, or members of the group, insist that individuals of the group should be this, and this, and this, we are in a sense committing the mistake of trying to take upon ourselves the work of the Master. The abhyasi's business is to do his work in obedience to the Master. To preserve the group identity and to make it grow, and to ultimately embrace the Universe is the Master's job. Let us leave it to Him.

 
 
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