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If You Love, You Obey

If you ask the several thousand abhyasis of this Mission why they follow Babuji Maharaj, few will tell you that they wanted spiritual growth. In fact, the true abhyasi never went to him for spiritual growth. It was the love for him that made them continue with him, which made it possible for them to follow him, and what is most important, obey him. Following and obeying are not synonymous. Many are the followers but few are obedient. Unthinking, automatic obedience comes only from love. Without love for the Master, there cannot be this obedience. Because then we start thinking, "What is he saying?" Why is he saying it? Should he say it? Should I obey it? And my humble suggestion is, such abhyasis will soon lose their way.

So it is my growing conviction that the process is given to us as a matter of discipline, to make us obedient. And as we grow more and more obedient, it shows an increasing love for the Master. We don't love Him or obey Him because of authoritarian domination by Him, but because we love the man. And when we love Him absolutely, we obey Him absolutely. So one sure index of your love for the Master is the degree of your obedience, there must be absolute love behind it. With absolute love, there is absolute dependence. With absolute dependence, there is absolute surrender. Then it is His problem, you see, what to do with this guy. He won't leave him alone.

I am tired of hearing people say they love the Master. If it was so easy, we would all have been saints. When is that possibility going to come, I do not know. But surely He will bless us with that. So what is the other way? Obedience. When we obey Him we work for Him, He has to love us. It is not important whether I love the Master or not. The important thing is whether my Master loves me. You see, no child, when it is born, loves the mother. Its existence is ensured because the mother loves the child. Later on, the child learns to love its mother. The mother loves naturally; the children have to learn to love by association. Similarly the Master loves us naturally; we have to learn to love the Master. And when we obey Him without question, then we find the miraculous unfoldment of His powers. Because I, being nothing, can yet do everything He says, because it is His order! You see, how being nothing, He makes us everything, by the simple act of obedience? And the more we see this miracle, that we are what we are, but we can do more what the Master is doing, the more the humility comes, the more the wonder of the Master comes. Then only love begins. No longer is the self important - He alone is important.

It is love which is praised beyond even effort, beyond even everything else, because love for the Master alone can give you obedience to the Master. One who loves, obeys. That one who obeys need not love. There are servants, policemen, there are military officers who obey rules without having to love the people who give those rules. But when you love totally, your obedience is total, that means it is surrender. So love alone can make surrender possible. Love alone is the ticket from here to eternity. Carry it in your hearts, because that is the safest place, as pockets can be picked, purses can be stolen, hand bags can be lost. After all, one loves with the heart, not with the stomach or with the head.

 

 

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